The True Truth

Bonjour!

I assume everyone must be fine and safe. I hope you will not loose interest while reading this blog. 

I think everyone's thinking process is different and unique. And we don't have to follow anyone. Did you ever realize, whenever we can't oppose or deny someone's thoughts then we start following them? 

This is the real truth people follow so many people like Ramdev, Asaram Bapu, Radhe Maa, Sadhguru, or anyone who is either true or not because we agree with their answers to many life questions. Even I follow some like Jiddu Krishnamurthi, Sadhguru, maybe more not because I can't find the answers but we both agree on many thoughts. I mean, it's a choice to follow someone or not, and if you do then also keep in mind to cross-question every point of view. Never follow anyone blindly because at last, he is not fooling you. Actually you allow him/her to do so with you.

So this is my way of thinking and anyone should not judge me on this, he could agree or disagree. There are so many thoughts flying in my mind from which I will share some today.

Some of them which I think everyone should go through. 

1. It is related to the movie industry.

First, I want to talk about movies. There are 2 truths that I observed in our Bollywood industries or any movie industry. First, they will always show us what they want to say. There could be so many perspectives. That is the perfect source to manipulate a perspective in our minds. "Sanju" was a great film. Did everything was true or not we don't know. But now we had a great image of the person.

If you think deeply, it is also possible in reality. Let's see our government and news reporters. Either the news is true or not, we have to believe in it because there is no other way out. Isn't this powerful? They can take any decision and without realising we have to follow, most of the youth doesn't even know what is happening around because for that we have to generate a little interest in government and that will happen when we leave our useless social media. Well but I think government power is more powerful than any Marvel or DC comic superhero. 

Do you know most capable and best Indians serve other nations, maybe they are aware of this.

And now the Second truth is we usually see the movies with great interest, and most of the time we compare or we can say we assume we are or we want to be the main character in that film. But if we compare, does any of us is that handsome or beautiful? Do you know they are only showing their best face or body side or the best angle? We all have imperfections and we should accept them. We should know we all the heroes of our lives, beauty will get dull with time and true happiness is in self-love.

2. What does matter?

If we keep on dissecting a single human need and try to find the most important thing in our life then where will we end?

Let's try,

The first thing which is the most important is money. Can we live without money? I think maybe yes for some exceptions but overall NO. But do you ever think about how much is enough? Does money give me happiness or Is this happiness which I get from money is temporary or last forever?

In my perspective, I think "money need" is one thing which will never end and if so then Isn't that become a deadlock? Everyone has heard this, "when we die we take nothing with us." Oh No! the whole life which you dedicated to money is not all yours in the end. 

Is there only money which we think is important, I think there are a lot of things to which we misunderstood and gave to much importance like brands, makeup, sex, phones, fashion, trends ,porn ,people or maybe many more.

Hmm, Then what is crucial for us, let us see in human life, before even talking to a person we start judging people based on religion, caste, gender, color, clothes they wearing, the language they speak,  the bad habits like smoking or drinking alcohol and many other things. And then we start talking with them and we also start making his/her image in our mind based on conversation or incidents that happen between us. Do you think then we meet that person again then there is a predefined image of the person in our mind? Did you notice I bold the "is" because what we did is we made a current image based on the person's past? Is this right to judge someone's present based on something which doesn't even exist?

I might get off the topic but our base must be strong before judging or rather I say we should not even judge, we can just agree or disagree with others.

Still, what does matter? If we take everything from you then we are only left with a human body containing energy or we can say, soul. From these two things, the human body will keep on changing and in the end it will decompose after death, so we are only left with soul, mind, energy, or anything you say. 

Soul: we heard many things like we had a connection when we love to talk or chat with someone, they are the soulmates, we often also heard I am doing this to make my soul satisfy and happy. I think there is nothing which more important than inner peace. We have also heard that Happiness is inside. According to me, there is nothing bigger and important than our soul. 

So what should we do to make our soul happy? Before knowing that you should be aware about my 3rd point.

3. Tea helps me to reduce my sleepiness.

Most of us have heard this perception. Coffee or tea helps me to remain awake whereas some people say the opposite. We have also heard some people remain sober after taking alcohol and while some not. From where this difference has come? 

Did you figure out what's the point? How this could be possible? 

There are so many differences but still, there is one thing common in all of us. And that similarity is what all people believe in, and only that is happening with them. I am the one who thought there is no effect on me of drinking tea and that happens whenever I take one(I mean nothing happens).

Here is the secret to make our soul happy, but keep both last points in our mind.

Now if we all broaden our perspective, then can we apply this to our goals, happiness, wishes, dreams? I think yes, we can and many of us try this but the mistake that most of us do is they don't believe in themselves. 

There is a famous quote by Theodore Roosevelt: “Believe you can and you're halfway there.”

Similarly, the keys toward true happiness are :

1. Invest your first 30 years in finding what you love to do and that should give happiness and satisfaction to your soul.

2. Throughout the life believe in yourself.

3. Keep in mind that your work doesn't require everyone's appreciation and acknowledgment (Your mother, father, uncle and any known person are the examples that except few people as compare to world population who knows them or us (even many people might not know our PM too.).). And that doesn't even matter because happiness is inside if it comes from someone then it will never be fulfilled.

4. And don't forget to earn for your needs, not your wants. There is a huge difference between what I need and what I want.

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Either you agree or disagree, tell me in the comments. And if you have any topic to talk about then I will be very happy to discuss.